http://www.natthefatrat.com/2010/02/we-are-not-born-women.html
And I LOVE the thought of it....
When was the first time you felt girlie?
What makes you feel like a woman?
Why do you love being feminine?
I never really considered myself a girlie girl. The main reason being is because I don't wear makeup and I don't really like the color pink. (it has it's fabulous moments, but in moderation) But in all actuality- I am girlie.
I feel girlie when I wear stilettos. Walking on those tiny tips. The first time I really felt this was with my friend Nemiha - as teenagers we dressed up in short shorts and high heels (at my house one afternoon) and it was a ball! I felt sexy. For the 1st time.
I feel girlie when I am carrying a cute purse and when my hair is all just right.
I feel girlie when around friends and behaving all flamboyant like.
I feel girlie when I am in a dressing room and I find an outfit that is just- hmmmmm! So fabulous on!
I feel girlie shoe shopping (shoe trying on & shoe buying- not just shoe looking or shoe yearning)
I feel girlie wearing a bracelet(s).
I feel girlie when I am in a swimsuit with a sundress cover up (speaking of the sun I miss it)
I feel girlie getting a massage or a pedicure or facial not so much when getting my hair cut - to much pressure for small talk.
Those are wonderful feelings...
I feel like a woman when I am cradling my babies.
I feel like a woman when I am baking (especially when I wear an apron) but not so much when I am cooking dinner unless I am really excited about the dinner.
I feel like a woman when I am finishing a huge cleaning endeavor! When all the house is clean and everything in order.
I feel like a woman when i am taking care of my family with purpose!
I feel like a woman in an evening gown.
I feel loved as a women when I look at my wedding ring..
I feel like a woman when my man just holds me.
I feel like a woman when I go to lunch with friends
I feel like a woman when I planned and carried out a fun activity for my family.
I feel like a woman when I bring someone bread.
I feel like a woman when I wear a nightie.
I feel like a woman when my husband wants me.
Do you know what? Just because I love blue does t mean that I'm not girlie- I Am!!!
I love being a GiRL!!! I love having my man take care of me. I love taking care of him. I feel alive in my soul when I fully live my gender. I feel alive in my soul when I hug my daughters. I love being a mother. I love being a wife. I love taking care of myself in girlie ways and I love dressing in cute clothes, and I love creating a home for my family.
Of course there are times (sometimes many times a day) when I daydream about quiet beaches and a book or hiking in Europe and I wish my life were a bit more free than the demands it has but when I sit here I realize this truth. I love motherhood and wifehood and womanhood. I love my life that has been created for me. It has LASTING JOY.
What do you love about being a girl, a woman?
When did you realize this?
Do you remember a moment in time that you realized you felt really truly feminine?
I can't wait to hear!!!
Brit
Ps - my hubby said he likes that I'm a girl :) phew!!
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